Tag: resilience

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To Err Is to Be Human: Celebrating the Power of Learning

Posted on by rachaelathomasj

To err is human, but every mistake carries a lesson. Discover how embracing imperfection, resilience, and the power of learning can transform your journey of personal growth and self-discovery. These timeless words remind us of something simple yet profound—we are not meant to be perfect; we are meant to be human. And in being human, we are invited into the sacred dance of growth, where mistakes are not failures but faithful companions on our journey of becoming.

The Beauty in Stumbling

Each misstep whispers a lesson. When we stumble, we discover new ways of standing tall. When we falter, we learn the strength of rising again. History itself shows us this truth—every great invention, every bold breakthrough, every step forward came through countless trials, errors, and renewed attempts. Our lives reflect the same rhythm. Mistakes are not detours; they are part of the road itself.

Learning: The Heart of Being Alive

There is immense power in learning. Every error holds a hidden gift, waiting for us to unwrap it with reflection and courage. To learn is to take what once felt heavy and turn it into wisdom. To learn is to transform a wrong turn into a guiding light. The very act of learning proves that we are alive, growing, and endlessly capable of more.

Embracing Our Shared Humanity

When we accept our imperfections, we open ourselves to compassion—both for ourselves and for others. We see that everyone carries their own journey of lessons, victories, and second chances. In celebrating our humanness, we find connection. We realize that what unites us is not perfection, but the courage to keep trying, keep learning, and keep loving despite the stumbles along the way.

Becoming Through Mistakes

To err is to be human. But to embrace those errors as opportunities—to rise, to grow, to learn—that is to truly live. Every mistake can be a stepping stone to something greater, if we allow it to be. So let us celebrate being human, not despite our flaws, but because of them.

For in every error, there is a lesson.
In every lesson, there is growth.
And in every act of growth, there is the miracle of becoming.

Life Lessons I Have Learnt

Through my own journey, I’ve discovered:

  1. Mistakes are not the end—they are a beginning. Every stumble can open the door to a new path.
  2. Self-forgiveness is a form of strength. It is only when I forgive myself that I can move forward with freedom.
  3. Growth takes patience. Learning often comes slowly, but each step forward—no matter how small—matters.
  4. Vulnerability connects us. When I share my struggles, I discover that I am not alone.
  5. Resilience is built through trying again. Courage is not the absence of failure—it is the decision to keep going.

These lessons remind me daily that my humanity is not a flaw but a gift, and that every mistake I make has the power to shape me into someone wiser, kinder, and stronger.

Posted in Celebrate Today, Celebrating Existence, Celebrating Life, Life

Rising in the Face of Adversity: When the Smiles Are Fake and the Words Are Hollow

Posted on by rachaelathomasj

Life has a way of testing us when we least expect it. Sometimes it’s through quiet struggles—stress that no one sees, battles we fight in silence, or moments when everything feels just a little too heavy to carry alone. And in those times, what makes it harder is not just the adversity itself—but the smiles that don’t reach the eyes and the words that lack sincerity.

We live in a world that often tells us to “stay strong” without truly understanding what we’re going through. Some say, “I’m here for you,” but disappear when you need them the most. Some compliment us but secretly compete. They smile at us, but whisper behind our backs. And while it’s easy to become jaded, bitter, or withdrawn—there is something powerful about choosing to rise anyway.

Strength Isn’t Always Loud

True strength doesn’t always roar. Sometimes, it’s just getting out of bed in the morning. Showing up to work or parenting when your heart is heavy. Smiling back—even when you know the smile isn’t real—because you refuse to let the world change your softness.

Rising in the face of adversity means choosing authenticity in a sea of pretense. It means being kind even when kindness is not returned. It means forgiving—not because they deserve it—but because you deserve peace.

Fake Smiles Don’t Define You

You’ll meet people who pretend to care. Who say one thing and do another. Who clap when you win but secretly hope you lose. But their smiles don’t define your worth, and their words don’t reflect your truth.

Let their insincerity be a reminder of what you never want to become. Let it fuel your growth, not your grudges. Because rising doesn’t mean pretending everything is fine—it means facing what’s not, and growing anyway.

Your Truth is Your Power

You don’t need everyone to understand your journey. You just need to stay true to your path. Real light doesn’t need validation to shine. Keep doing your best. Keep showing up with heart. Keep speaking truth, even if your voice trembles.

And if you’re walking through pain right now—take heart. You are not weak. You are rising. Even when no one claps. Even when the spotlight is on someone else. Even when it’s quiet.

Keep Rising

Adversity will come. So will fake friends, shallow conversations, and fleeting applause. But so will your strength. So will grace. So will clarity. And the more you rise, the more you’ll recognize who’s truly with you—and who only showed up for the highlight reel.

Keep rising. Not because it’s easy. But because you were never meant to stay low.

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Celebrating Existence: the 2023 chapter!

Posted on by rachaelathomasj

Wow! What a year but it’s over and it’s time to close the 2023 chapter! My comfort is this: see it for what it is, accept it for the lessons and experiences and give thanks that I endured it!

The thing with 2023 is that it was a year unlike any other and enduring it must mean something right? From January to December there was a lot, especially of unexpected things, but we got through it! Remember a couple things:

I have done my best! The cards I have been given have been dealt with! This year has been filled with so many challenges I think they are outside all others.

The reality is if another year is like it, I would say my ‘back strong’ and I would not give up.

People look at you and they think your smile means you are on top of the world. They judge you; they accuse you of the worst things you are not even capable of, but they think it is okay! It can never be! Always remember, what you don’t like for yourself, don’t do to anyone else!

Those who know me would know I am pleasant, peaceful and I believe in treating others like I want to be treated. I stay away from drama. I maintain my silence as best as I can.

Thankfully I have been blessed with the love of my family and the people who fit in my circle.

What a year! Omg!

I have walked away from situations.

I have become more silent.

I have been at a loss for words.

I have severed ties.

I have walked away from toxic.

I have said no to hypocrisy.

I have survived.

I have met those who when they say stand up and wait you need to run for your life.

I have learnt to just do and move on.

But I have not lost my humanity.

I have not sacrificed my peace of mind.

I have stood up for myself.

I have learnt to believe more and more in my sayings!

No one can stand in my shoes or fit in them like me!

I am never alone!

Doing my best is always what matters!

All in all, I am determined to make 2024 better! All in all, like before, I am determined to be the best I can be! As I always say eternally grateful and forever blessed! I remain committed to helping people the world over one country at a time!

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